I saw the lights
Reflecting on birthday celebrations, my love of tea, a tentative return to travel and being the world’s least elegant user of slides. Continue reading I saw the lights
Author: Jessica Richards
Jessica Richards was born in Stoke-on-Trent and lives in London. She's a writer, traveller and cat person. She writes honestly about trying to do life. Jessica is also the Director of Creative Product Consulting Ltd where her mission is to represent humans in the design of products and services.
End of an era
I’ve been wrestling with the thought of my upcoming birthday for the last couple of years. It was a warning sign or a deep ravine up ahead of me in the distance. Midlife crisis is a term we use in jest, but I think it might be real and it’s not fun! It’s not like I want to buy a sports car, if that were … Continue reading End of an era
Healing
I write about the body and my relationship to it often. It’s something I feel changing over the years, as life happens. During the pandemic our bodies felt like machines to exercise and precious goods to protect. There was a battle between physical and mental health, where keeping ourselves safe came at a cost to our social connections. Friendships shifted and are still reconfiguring. I … Continue reading Healing
Goals
I’m looking at a vision board I created 2-3 years ago and reviewing what I put on it. This post is also about goals and planning more broadly, and not quite knowing what to do next. Continue reading Goals
A little chilly
Of course the title refers to the British Summer weather and specifically the sea. I’ve been exploring an area of North Wales where my parents take their touring caravan. The beaches are so beautiful, natural and inviting. You can see seals basking on rocks just off the coast. And the sea is inviting but so, so cold! I braced myself and managed to go swimming … Continue reading A little chilly
Blue skies and high ceilings
Once again we’ve reached the post-lockdown phase, restrictions tentatively lifting around the UK. The big difference for me is having had the first dose of the Covid vaccine. It felt like completing the final levels of a computer game as I walked round the cavernous conference centre. You give personal details at one desk, receive medical advice at another, go this way, go that way, … Continue reading Blue skies and high ceilings
Living apart together
Legend has it that Frida Kahlo and Diego Rivera lived in two interconnected houses. So did Helena Bonham Carter and Tim Burton. These examples of keeping separate living space as a couple make it seem like an eccentric, artistic lifestyle choice. Yet so many women I know desperately want their own space (whilst also often wanting to be in relationships). It’s not surprising that a … Continue reading Living apart together
What would Sophia Loren do?
One way I’ve been passing time is watching old Italian movies. I’m in a Sophia Loren phase. Apart from giving me full confidence that eating spaghetti is the way to live, her characters have a strength, practicality and robustness that is reassuring. As well as the vintage collection, her most recent movie is on Netflix along with a documentary, What would Sophia Loren do? It’s … Continue reading What would Sophia Loren do?
Communal living
I haven’t written much lately. Lots of things are half-written, half-read and half-thought. The end of 2020 and start of 2021 blurred into one confusing block of time, which has now passed. I had reached the point where anxiety affected me physically. Stomach pain, leg cramps, awake each day at 3am in panic, frantically googling symptoms. Living in a fog of tiredness, yet on high … Continue reading Communal living
Bed rest
I’ve spent a lot of time horizontal recently. Some of which was giving into the need to rest after a draining year. But some of it has been involuntary; being unable to move much due to unexplained pains in my abdomen. It’s not really what I wanted for Christmas, but on the positive side at least I was off work anyway! This particular problem got … Continue reading Bed rest